Hosting multiplayer

anyone know if there is a way to host a multiplayer lobby? I hate the fact that i get into a group that selects a mission then spawns us right in the same zone of the mission instead of an outside zones to work our way while farming. Only ONE match did we all NOT board the ship at the end to farm…everyone else wants to board as soon as it drops. They also have it on “normal” to which the mats I need haven’t dropped on “normal”. At least not for me so far. Id like to have control for once instead of hoping that the person who is in control is wanting to farm.